Take these challenging times and turn it around. Ask, “How can I make this situation work for me?” There is always a silver lining to everything. Take these circumstances and WIN with them.
Turn what was meant to hold you back into a catalyst to launch you into living your best life. You are worthy right now. For more information, message me at info@arleneamora.com
Everyone doesn’t like the same things and that’s ok. Everyone has their unique style of clothing, different foods they like, different careers, etc. This means that Everyone is different, right?
In that unique difference - there is a difference of opinion. Some people may view it as a person not liking the other. That’s ok for someone not to like you. Don’t go out of your way to try and make someone like you. That’s a huge waste of time (been there - done that ... the person still doesn’t like me. & If you’re the person that doesn’t like me and you are reading this - “Hey There ,no hate but just keep it moving”).
There are BILLIONS of people in this world. Don’t ever allow ONE person not liking you to ruin your day, week, month, year or life. You cannot please everyone and if you tried, you will fail (again, speaking from experience).
You are not here to make everyone like you. You are here on a special assignment to do what you gotta do. Do not get side tracked with people who talk bad about you and try to push you down. Enforce clear boundaries and keep going forward.
Please understand, Our Thoughts and Words have so much power. Don’t ever take for granted how your thoughts and words can shape your reality.
How many times have you asked someone what they want ONLY for them to end up telling you what they don’t want??
This is one of the many reasons people won’t see what they want come to fruition. They are too focused on what they DON’T want.
Right here right now, take a minute to ONLY focus on what you want. Wanting still comes from a place of lack. Replace the word WANT with CHOOSE.
Want to turbo boost this process? Take a drop or 2 of your fave essential oil, inhale slowly and deeply. Start focusing on what you choose to happen vs. what you don’t want. You will see how quickly your perspective changes and how things will begin to shift in your life. Do this for 21 consecutive days to see some concrete results.
*Please Note, All Essential Oils are not created equal. If you need any guidance on which oils are the best to use, send me a message. I’ll send you a list of some power house oils I use to help create a happy and healthy life.
Have you ever inserted, “I’m just kidding” at the end of a sentence when you see it has made someone have a negative reaction to what you said?
This is because Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair.
Words have energy. They carry the power to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble. The energy of your words, can invoke fear or love. Love and fear are both energy vibrating at different frequencies. Just with your intent - you can shift the energy that feels stagnant, leaden and heavy and make it golden, loving and light.
Use your words wisely and see how your world begins to move differently.
There are so many things we are in charge of in our life. Our mindset and our actions are thee most important. For example, If someone didn’t treat you fairly, you are not responsible for holding onto the anger they caused. You are only accountable for your own actions and that’s it.
I’ve seen so many people’s behaviors be heavily influenced by what others did not do ... “this person did not clean up, so I won’t either”. “that person did not say hi, so I won’t say hi either “. “They did not treat me with respect, so I won’t treat them with respect either”. “No fair, they did not have to do that to be successful, why should I do it?”.
Stop allowing pettiness to weigh you down. Don’t allow what other people do or do not, to keep you from doing what you want or need to do. At the end of the day, ONLY YOU are responsible for the things YOU do - NO ONE ELSE.
