You are not for everyone!
Everyone doesn’t like the same things and that’s ok. Everyone has their unique style of clothing, different foods they like, different careers, etc. This means that Everyone is different, right?
Everyone doesn’t like the same things and that’s ok. Everyone has their unique style of clothing, different foods they like, different careers, etc. This means that Everyone is different, right?
In that unique difference - there is a difference of opinion. Some people may view it as a person not liking the other. That’s ok for someone not to like you. Don’t go out of your way to try and make someone like you. That’s a huge waste of time (been there - done that ... the person still doesn’t like me. & If you’re the person that doesn’t like me and you are reading this - “Hey There ,no hate but just keep it moving”).
There are BILLIONS of people in this world. Don’t ever allow ONE person not liking you to ruin your day, week, month, year or life. You cannot please everyone and if you tried, you will fail (again, speaking from experience).
You are not here to make everyone like you. You are here on a special assignment to do what you gotta do. Do not get side tracked with people who talk bad about you and try to push you down. Enforce clear boundaries and keep going forward.
Have you ever said or done something that you know would not be good for you? (Raises hand). Ugh, yep I have been there and it has been humbling. Admitting to mistakes is the first step to becoming your own BFF. Sometimes, we will stay committed to that mistake but Who ultimately pays the price? You.
If you think you’ve learned it all - think again. It’s time to break out of the limited thinking. Stop staying stuck in your old ways. Expand your mind and open it to the realm of different possibilities. It will not only strengthen your mind but help you gain a well rounded perspective so you are able to relate to anyone you come in contact with.
When we think we know it all, we are doing ourselves a huge disservice. For those of us who have kids or are around kids a lot, they have the most to teach us. My kids have been some of my greatest teachers.
Another great teacher is your triggers. You can say something to someone and they hear something completely different. This is not to be a battle of who is right. This is an opportunity for you to hear the other person’s point of view. I would highly suggest to look at what triggers you and dissect those things apart to heal them.
