Mindset Monday - What Do You Gain when You Complain?

Have you ever eavesdropped on someone’s conversation and heard complaint after complaint? Then you turn around and complain about their complaining?

We all want to be heard. We all want to feel validated. Complaining is a way for us to catch people’s attention. But the real question to ask ourselves is, “Is this complaining going to actually be the answer to solving the problem?”

Many times we complain, not to find answers to problems BUT We want our voice to be heard. We need to ask ourselves - are we complaining just to complain? Or are we offering solutions to the complaint we are presenting?

It takes courage to admit to ourselves that we aren’t truly seeking a solution and are only searching for validation from others. Take a couple drops of Acceptance Essential Oil blend and breathe it in deeply. Place your hand over your heart and Accept yourself as you are. There is no outside source needed to validate who you are.


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